Have you ever found yourself browsing through some adult personals online and you suddenly come to the realization – after chatting online with a few individuals – that you’d really like to meet one of them and possibly start up an adult dating relationship?

This scenario happens all of the time – it is called internet dating – and it turns out to be successful for quite a few people. So what if you think you’ve met the man or woman of your dreams but things in the relationships start to become very rocky? You know you want to till be with this person, but you also aren’t sure if you should break up with them. This is what I like to refer to as “dating limbo”. You’re in the middle, neither up nor down, and it is up to you to make a quick decision. Being in dating limbo can make you miserable, and make you over-think stupid little things that don’t really matter.

You know if you decide to stay with this person you will feel comfortable, and it will be easy, so you choose to do it. And then, right away, you find yourself hooking up and having sex with someone you have been flirting with at work. it seems a little hypocritical “on paper”, but you may justify it in your head as a way of coping and getting some thing “out of your system” in order to make your original relationship work out.

You should always worry about something backfiring. It is one thing to cheat on your partner one time only and not feel bad about it; however, if you plan on cheating and lying and hiding things from this man/woman who you believed was the one, you are just lying to yourself.

What goes around comes around, Justin Timberlake wouldn’t lie about that. You can’t always get what you want, Mick Jagger – preach!

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